Three years ago, at 23, I rode a horse for the first time. I had zero experience and didn’t go through a riding school. I simply booked a trail ride—and it turned out to be the best possible introduction to horseback riding for beginners.

If you’re wondering what horseback riding is like for the first time, or you’re nervous about your first trail ride, this post covers exactly what I wish I knew before getting in the saddle.

Beginner Horseback Riding Tips: What to Expect on Your First Ride

1. Mounting a Horse for the First Time

It’s not as effortless as it looks in movies. Here’s how to safely mount a horse as a beginner:

• Approach from the left side (called the “near side”).
• Hold the reins in your left hand, grab the saddle horn or pommel.
• Place your left foot in the stirrup.
• Push off the ground with your right leg and swing it over.
• Sit down gently—don’t plop.

💡Pro tip: Use a mounting block if you need help. It’s safer and easier for both you and the horse.

2. Learn Horseback Riding Terminology

Understanding a few basic horse riding terms will help you feel more confident:

• Reins – leather straps you hold to guide the horse.
• Saddle – the seat you sit in.
  Stirrups – foot supports hanging from the saddle.
• Gait – the horse’s pace (walk, trot, canter, gallop).
• Posting – rising and falling with the rhythm during a trot.

3. Choose the Right Stable for First-Time Horse Riders

If you’re new, where you ride matters more than you think. I didn’t start at a formal riding school—I went straight into a guided trail ride. It was relaxed, pressure-free, and perfect for beginners.

There was no one correcting my posture or telling me to “heels down.” And honestly? That’s what made it so enjoyable. It wasn’t about being perfect—it was about feeling safe and having fun.

For the first two years, I rode with the reins in my right hand and my left hand gripping the saddle—sometimes holding on for dear life. Even after I started finding my balance, I kept holding the saddle. Not for physical support anymore, but for emotional support. It gave me that little bit of confidence I needed to keep going.

When choosing your first riding experience:

• Look for beginner-friendly trail rides.
• Make sure the horses are calm and experienced.
• Go where you’re encouraged to enjoy the ride—not obsess over technique.

Confidence comes with time. Comfort comes first.

4. Wear the Right Clothes for Horseback Riding

Comfort and safety matter more than fashion when you’re riding a horse. Here’s what to wear on your first horseback ride:

• Long pants – Jeans or leggings to protect your legs from rubbing on the saddle.
• Closed-toe shoes with a small heel – Riding boots are ideal, but any shoe that won’t slip through the stirrup works.
• Fitted top or layers – Avoid anything too loose that could get caught.
• Helmet – Most stables provide one. Always wear it.
• No dangling accessories – Ditch scarves, crossbody bags, or jewelry that could tangle.

Skip shorts, sandals, or oversized clothing. You’ll thank yourself later.

5. How to Steer a Horse: Simple Beginner Techniques

You don’t need to be an expert to guide a horse on a trail, but here’s a quick intro to steering:

• Hold the reins lightly in both hands (unless you’re me, holding the saddle with one for support).
• To turn left: gently move your left hand outward.
• To turn right: gently move your right hand outward.
• To stop: pull back gently and evenly on the reins while saying “whoa.”
• Keep your hands low and steady—don’t yank or overcorrect.

This is a general guide, Always consult a guide or trainer.

Most trail horses are trained to follow the one in front of them, but you’ll still want to know how to guide and stop safely.

6. Stay Calm on the Horse: Horses Feel Your Energy

Here’s how to stay calm while horseback riding:

• Take deep, steady breaths.
• Keep your body loose and relaxed.
• Focus on the present moment, not what could go wrong.
• Trust your horse—especially on a trail ride, they’ve done it hundred times.

Horses mirror your mood. Bring calm, bring positivity, and they’ll respond with trust.

Final Thoughts: Your First Horseback Riding Experience Should Be Fun 💨🐎

You don’t need special gear, years of training, or perfect form to enjoy horseback riding for the first time. You need:

• A good trail guide.
• A calm, reliable horse.
• A willingness to relax and enjoy the moment.

That first ride taught me that horseback riding isn’t just about control—it’s about connection. So if you’re thinking about trying it? Go for it. Pick a trail ride, breathe deep, and trust the horse.

You might just fall in love with riding like I did.

Want More Beginner Horse Riding Advice?

Follow along for more honest tips on horseback riding for beginners, trail ride experiences, and learning to ride without pressure. Got a question? Drop a comment below or message me directly—I’m happy to share what I’ve learned. 💌

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